some thoughts....on some stuffs...

it was said.. when 1 leaves another will come.. yang.. we will all miss u here.. esp someone..heheh seriously.. if u think its not right better make it clear to that person.. like one of my friend who finally did.. though its hard or sad or difficult u just have to do what its right.. no point leaving that person in the middle of nowhere.. hoping that he/she is heading in the direction that is suppose to be.. if talking face to face is difficult.. what other forms of communication are there? email? sms? snail mail? but then again when u want it the other party is not willing.. and when the other party is willing u dun want it.. what comes around goes around? not to be mean but i guess this is how it goes.. unless both of u are willing to come out with a situation then it wont be so tough on either one of u..

bet some of us have gone through this sometime in our lifetime.. its something that we cannot miss.. making decisions on tough questions.. are guys more sensative than girls? or are girls more sensative than guys? let's say if a guy choose to end something.. is he being unfair? what are the odds of people thinking that its always the guy's fault? outside parties should put his/herself in the guy's shoes and think about it for awhile...

me bengz kev yang apes and the gf were at beach bar on friday and suddenly was discussing some topic.. when finally asked about that we all have different views from the girls.. the girls think the guy is being a bastard but try putting urself in the situation... its not easy to put a correct answer on it.. yeah there is neither right or wrong to it but got to weigh the consiquences of what will happen after.. guys heartless?i guess not.. girls not sensative? i guess not too..

anyways yang.. better make things clear to her soon..

lets welcome back jason!! mahjong my place this saturday?